Every child deserves a loving family, no matter their circumstances or where they come from. For unaccompanied minors—youth who arrive in the U.S. without a parent or legal guardian—having a stable, caring home can make all the difference during an uncertain time.
Supporting Unaccompanied Minors in the Transition to Adulthood
Catholic Charities’ Unaccompanied Refugee Minor (UMP) program equips foster families to provide care, guidance and stability for these young people as they adjust to life in the United States. From English language support to access to healthcare, UMP ensures that youth—and the families who welcome them—are supported every step of the way.
As youth grow older and transition out of foster care, community placements offer continued guidance. These placements are less formal than foster care, focusing on mentorship and helping young adults build independence while living in a supportive home environment.
Saying “Yes” to the Unknown
For Karin and Dan Brimhall, becoming community placements required a step of faith. After attending an information session, they felt called to open their home—but like many families, they had questions.
They wondered how the experience would affect their household, how their biological children would respond and whether they were truly prepared for the responsibility. Still, they chose to move forward.
What followed was a journey that broadened their perspectives and deepened their understanding of what it means to love someone beyond familiar boundaries.
Growing Through New Experiences
Welcoming a young person from a different background invited the Brimhalls into new cultural and religious experiences. They made intentional efforts to learn, listen and engage—seeking to understand traditions and practices different from their own.
“Understanding the broader sense of humanity and learning about a new culture and religion was eye-opening,” Karin shared. “We developed a new appreciation and love for all people and an increased capacity to love someone who is not a biological family member.”
Through shared experiences—celebrating milestones, exploring new places and simply spending time together—their home became a place of growth for everyone involved.
The Impact of Showing Up
For Dan, one of the most meaningful parts of the experience was helping guide a young person through everyday life skills—navigating culture, building independence and preparing for adulthood.
But just as much as they offered support, Karin and Dan found themselves changed in return.
They gained a deeper understanding of how past experiences can shape trust and relationships. They learned the importance of patience, consistency and simply being present.
Though their time as placements came to an end, their commitment did not.
“Even after he moved out, we continued to let him know we cared about him,” Karin said. “That connection doesn’t just stop.”
A Lasting Connection
For the Brimhalls, what began as an opportunity to help became something much more meaningful—a relationship that continues beyond the walls of their home.
While they are grateful for the role they were able to play, they also recognize how much they received in return: a broader worldview, a deeper compassion and a lasting connection that continues to shape their lives.
We are always in need of community placements who are willing to open their homes and step into a mentorship role. To learn more, visit the UMP program page.
